Use this curve make your life straight

         Key of success
We can not find our happiness anywhere but it is within  us by our  action. Happiness is not a postponing action, but it is the action of present. The good thing in our life is just enjoy our present moment. Each present moment  moment is our life. We should practice to appreciate small small  things,because 1000's of small things are making  a big thing. The Curve of smile make your life straight. Yes ;not better knowledge give happiness but better attitude. When you focus on what you have rather than what you don't have, then  you could  find your happiness.

I  have wondered that Happiness definition has been changing  over the time.

At 500 BC -Happiness is defined in terms of dignity
At 400BC -Happiness is equal to peacefulness
At 300BC- Happiness depends on our self (Aristotle)
At 10th century -Happiness is measured in terms of knowledge of spirituality
At 16th century - Happiness defined in terms of outcome of their effort
At 19th century - Happiness is defined by doing actions

 In 21st century,happiness is defined in terms of success.People are thinking that getting  success make them  happy. But in my view, Being happy make you to get success.The more happy you are can achieve success more.

Happy people might give 30% more sales in their organization.

They could be 3 times more creative.

31% more productive.

19% more accurate.

10% more engaged.

Happier people are more productive and more healthier. So in my perception ,happiness is the key of success. 

Special note when you thrive for success

When we thrive for a success, we might fall  into traps of success. I recognized four traps of success.

Greedy

Some people don't feel satisfaction at all in whatever they achieve. They  want to become  more and more famous. They  want to become wealthy more and more. They feel always hunger for fame and wealth. Stay hunger will pull you in the the  big trap of unhappiness.

Unmatched Pond

When we choose a pond which is very bigger than what you really need ,then we are falling into an inferior  thoughts of  trap .Sometimes when you see highly qualified people only around you ,then it will give you inferior thoughts that pull you in to the trap of unhappiness.

Copying other's goal

Sometimes we will follow other's goal blindly.Each people strengths are unique. For example after seeing Dhoni's  cricket excellence, you may put effort to become like him without analyzing your own strength. That means you are simply copying other's success in your life which might lead you to fall into the trap of unhappiness. When we work towards our own  goal  then it makes us happy.

Time to Think

1.Are you in a right pond of success?.

    refer here to find your right pond

2.Are you balancing your inner joy and success?

Refer here to find your success and joy balance

3.How to get the key of success?

Click here to find the recipe of happiness

All the best to use your right  key to get the treasure of success!

The unique way of fact

Perception

Last week my husband asked me after the birthday party what was the music you liked most in the  party.  I didn't know what kind of music was  played there because I was chatting with my closest friend about  my favorite topic. I heard the music in the party but not listened. Yes;. The more I hear, but the less I know for sure. The more I see, but less I know for sure.

Our eyes have the capacity of detecting candle light from 20 feet away. Our ear has the ability to receive clock tick sound from 20 feet away .We are seeing and hearing  what our mind is comprehend to see and hear. Perception make the difference between seeing vs observing and hearing vs listening. In my perception ,Perception is  favorite topic in  psychology studies.  Each  people's  perception is unique . Even each thing's perception is different  for each  person. It is the unique way of fact.                    

Not only seeing and hearing things according to the perception . Our happiness, success, pain, emotions are based on perception only. For example my daughter will be much happier than me when we go for a water park. Happiness is a positive perception of our brain. Happiness and pain  depends on how we are taking it; not on how we are making it. Music are as sad as listener only.Change of our life means how you are changing your perception only.

In my perception,

We are not seeing things as they are; but as who we are!

Define your perception before defining others!

Hoping you all  understood ,why I have chosen my blog title as "Kanmani's perception".😃😃😃

                         Kanmani perception is my unique  way of fact !!!