What is the layer u r in !
Outer layer success people
Some people will spend their whole time for how to become famous or how to reach highest position in their career.Even though they have got wealth , status and fame , but they will feel some emptiness in their heart personally.
Because of their busy schedule ,they don't spent quality of time with family and they don't even think about much. After reaching their destination they will have more hands to clap but no more hands to give hug to consoling their heart. This kind of success is success of outer layer. All kind of success doesn't give happiness. They will get success. But they can not enjoy it.
Inner layer success people
Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.”
― Albert Einstein
Success man means is not only to get in to the great position. But when you win the life obstacles (poverty) of peace for your family to get peace ,then you are a success man .In my village I have noticed more people .They might not have more money ,not have a fame but they seems to be very happy all the time. They are satisfied with what they have. Their inner heart will be rejoicing about their family and their society. They don't earn much money but enough money to survive; they don't become fame but got respect among their people. They measure their success in terms of positive emotions. They might not get hands of claps but they will get hands to hug to console them.This is inner layer success..
Integrated success
Integrated success people are the people who achieve success in the inner life as well as outer life too. They are also running towards their achievement but taking their family along. They are mostly optimistic people and they know well how to balance their family time and career time.They understand that we need a lap to take relax after their running.They will run towards goal and they will stop for a while to gain their energy to run again by love of family.They might fall down but they will get up with new energy. They have understood about what is real success .Real success is not, like, materialistic. It's being where you want to be when you want to be; just living your life how you feel; having an ultimate goal and being able to accomplish it.They will have the both.( hands of clap and hand to hug to console) .
In my perception,
Run ,run towards your target but take your family along .
All the very best to enjoy your running!
Time to Think: What is the layer you are in?