Leaders are managers and servants too

Leaders are managers and servants too!

"Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it."- Dwight D. Eisenhower (Ex-president of America)

The greatest leader is not  only making  the greatest things,but  making people to do the greatest things.Leaders knows the way to go and shows the way to people follow. Leaders  shines not only themselves but they make people to shine. 

 Leaders are different than the managers.Managers know how to manage things but leaders know how to influence people.  I would like to share about how leaders part is different than manager's. 
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⦁ When you’re a manager, you work for your company. When you’re a leader, your                        company works for you.
⦁ Leaders lead people;but managers manage things.
⦁ Leaders work for change;managers work for stability
⦁ Leaders focus on long term;managers focus on short term.
⦁ Leaders take new roads;managers find existing roads.
⦁ Leaders do the right things ;managers do the things right.

 Leadership without management is vision  without fulfillment.Good leaders should act as a managers too.

Leaders must be a servant 

If you are a servant you can understand what is best for the individual in the organization.It doesn't mean you are a slave to what they want.It means you are a servant to what they need.Heart of the leader manifested through service to others.Leaders are not served by others;but they are serving to others.They will talk for talk less people.People listen those who care them and who know them 

In my perception,

                Good leader must be manager as well as a good servant  too.

All the very best to practice as a good servant leader!

Loneliness vs Social

Loneliness vs Social

 Loneliness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self.Solitude is a good time to have to find your inner being but not loneliness.Loneliness is a pain of heart.Walking with friends  in the wild dessert is much better than walking lonely in the beach. 

 The researchers found that train passengers who chat with others are happier than those who spend time  by their smart phone.Social people are more creative ,more healthier ,more productive, more coping with challenges,more resilience than lonely people.

Loneliness is  equal to 15 cigarettes and two times obesity.Lonely people are more affected by heart deceases rather than friends making people.Lonely people feel more stress which release cortisol Harmone to affect your sleep and appetite. But When you get relationship with other, your body release oxytocin hormone which reduce stress and improve your health.

Loneliness is my least favorite thing about life. The thing that I’m most worried about is just being alone without anybody to care for or someone who will care for me.—Anne Hathaway(American  famous singer)

We are social animals.We may stumble at any point of our life,that time you need comfort and need hands to console.

In my perception

Family, friends, people around me are giving  meaning in my life.

All the very best;Have a meaningful life!

                          

Secret Of Change

Secret Of Change

"Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything".-George Bernard Shaw (Irish political activist)

  Process is a systematic series of actions directed to achieve particular end.By following 4 steps and 4 T's ,we can implement  changes in  our  process.Change will not come through anyone,we should take steps to change.So lets go for the steps,

Step 1:Plan
Develope a plan to imrove the process

⦁ Write down the objective
⦁ Plan how to collect the data
⦁ Plan and find the answer of what,whare,when regarding the process .
                              eg. how carry out this plan
⦁ Write down prediction.

Step 2: Do
Execute the plan on small scale

⦁ Carry out plan in a small level
⦁ Document what you observed
⦁ Record the data result from the do step

Step 3  Study
Confirm or make adjustment

⦁ Analyse the data you got
⦁ Compare the data with your prediction
⦁ If you are ok with the result then confirm those plans to do .
⦁ If you are not satisfied with that,find what kind of adjustment needed to implement.

Step 4 :Act

⦁ Implement the plan if you confirmed .
⦁ Implement the plan in small scale if you made adjustment again.

4T

⦁ Time -Give enough time to implement the plan.Not too hurry while implementing new things.
⦁ Tools-Make  having enough tool or resources to implement the new change
⦁ Training - Analyse how carry out thae plan,take enough training if you need.
⦁ Trust - Once you got training and ready ,then show in your action.

In my perception,

Secret of change is not worrying about old things,but creating new things in a new way.

All the very best for your new change !

Secret Of Change

I Can!

 I can give public speaking  doesn't mean I Don't have a fear to speak but I am going to conquer the fear.That is self confident.Don’t let mental blocks control you. Set yourself free. Confront your fear and turn the mental blocks into building blocks.”.Success is a mathematical linear equation of' I can'.If I believe I can ,then I can do it.If u think I can't then you can't make it.If have the self confident of ' I can' ,then knowledge you can gather.Skill you can practice.So what all we need is self confident.We might use "i can" ,in 3 kind of way to show our capacity.

I can't  - No self confident
I can   - Self confident
I am the one can  - Over confident or arrogant  
    
Self confident is not about what you have ,what you posses or not what you wear.But it is about what you have inside.Mahatma Gandhi said "Nobody can take your self respect unless you are willing to give them.Don't let anyone to define about you ; be as who you are.                               
We will do what we are done always.We will get what you have always got.But Do you want what you never had? It is fine to get fail.Fail give just sad for a while but give up make you bad ever.When you say I can do this project it means  you already done your half way of your project that time itself.Don't give up;Keep going.

  “The bird dares to break the shell, then the shell breaks open and the bird can fly openly. This is the simplest principle of success. You dream, you dare and and you fly.” 
― Israelmore Ayivor(Inspirational writer)

In my perception,

No matter how much physics you have without self confident;but matter is how much you have self confident to get success.

All the very best;Don't give up;Keep going.

How to fix the situation

How to fix the situation 

We always look for a comfort zone.We love familiar things no matter how bad it is.  Because familiarity gives double efficient output than unfamiliar things.But to have  unfamiliar things is good to learn new life skills.

“Keep your innocence and ignorance aside, and expose yourself to dangerous situations, and understand the deeper secrets of life.” - Michael Bassey Johnson (philosopher)

We need to  to figure out the tough  situation before you face it..We can segregate the situation in to four parts under the discipline of familiarity and importance.

1.Important and familiar 
2.Familiar and not important
3.Unfamiliar and not important
4.Important and unfamiliar

The fourth category is the important category in that  we  need special attention.

  For Example when you join in a new project team or new company,you will face many unfamiliar things but those are much important in your career .Having a good communication skill helps a lot in those times.We need to convey how our skills cope up with this project.We should try to figure out  the basic structure of project and what is your part will be  . Be clear  about your own working thoughts.Then You can communicate with the people with confident and efficiently.

In my perception,

Having unfamiliar things are good to  grow in our skills.

All the very best for your growing; Keep growing!

Feel Your Feeling of Happy!

                         Feel Your Feeling of  Happy!

"One filled with joy preaches without preaching". -Mother Teresa

 Happiness is accepting what it is.When we put our goal in terms of wealth,fame and status,we might loose our real happiness .Happiness is a feeling,you could not feel it when you run behind those things. I would like to share 4 kinds of rules to feel  your happy feelings.

1.Seek financial security not wealth
 When our intention is to become a wealthy person,then we may loose our happiness. We need money in our life to take care of our well being and family well being.We can create secured life using money .In the same time we should not become a greedy of money .When we run behind wealth we may lose our life happiness.We can not measure happiness in terms of money or what you are possessing.

2.Seek respect not fame
 When we will become a  stepping stone to other people ,then they will give respect towards us in their heart.We should be useful or helpful to others that makes our life meaningful.In my view You are worthily for 10 people is better than you are famous among 1000.

3.Seek responsible role not status
  When you are trying hard to show your high status,you may loose your life satisfaction. But when you take responsible roles in  the society which give true joy in your heart. Responsiveness is much different than the status.

Seek friends of virtue not shallow relationship
 Friends of virtue are really care about you and they will strengthen you when you will become low. In my view 10 friends of virtue is bigger than  1000s of knowing people.

In my perception,

    Happiness is a by-product of an your work to make someone else happy. 

              All the very best to feel your feelings!