My Strong will Kid!!!
"My daughter is not listening my words;She is stubborn" my friend worried ....
I was concerned about those words my friend shared with me .The word stubborn made me think and analyze the words of stubborn,perseverance, strong-will and Grit. I am not very good at English vocabularies. But I am pretty sure that kids are not to be stubborn .People are naming the strong will kids as stubborn kids.I have remembered the course "Positive Psychology: Character, Grit and Research Methods" From University of Penn.
Strong-willed kids are generally determined, highly motivated, persistent and not easily persuaded once they’ve made up their minds. My daughter has made her mind not to wear her hat even though the temperature is less than 10 degree Celsius. I became tired to convince her.But she is very clear in her way to follow her dad to not wear hat.
Most parents consider a strong will as a negative personality trait because it often creates resistance and frustration in family life. I love strong-willed kids in my personal (I am a mom of strong willed toddler😂) and professional life. I know that they drive their moms crazy but they are going to make a difference in the world one day. They are the leaders of tomorrow. But Unfortunately, it’s hard to raise a leader at home. These kids always have their own ways of doing things and like to tell other people (including their parents) what to do😓.They are better equipped to succeed, be creative. When we channelize them in a right direction, they will be more creative and succeed as leaders to uplift our society. Unchannalized strong will might end by even harmful to the society.
I have some tips to channelize their spirit not to break their spirit
1.Create strong inner moral principle not only by words but by your actions.
2.Find things (extra or co curriculum) that they can do that will challenge their strong wills.
3.Provide Healthy discipline which occurs when a parent helps a child yield to his authority and this can be done while preserving the child’s strong sense of self respect.
4.Parents should be strong willed in disciplining them in a healthy way.
5.Give Positive choices to feel their Independence's.
6.Give some space to plan their routine works to do .
7.Create better emotional bonding.
In my perception,
Having Strong-willed mind is the better personality to get success.
"My daughter is not listening my words;She is stubborn" my friend worried ....
Strong-willed kids are generally determined, highly motivated, persistent and not easily persuaded once they’ve made up their minds. My daughter has made her mind not to wear her hat even though the temperature is less than 10 degree Celsius. I became tired to convince her.But she is very clear in her way to follow her dad to not wear hat.
Most parents consider a strong will as a negative personality trait because it often creates resistance and frustration in family life. I love strong-willed kids in my personal (I am a mom of strong willed toddler😂) and professional life. I know that they drive their moms crazy but they are going to make a difference in the world one day. They are the leaders of tomorrow. But Unfortunately, it’s hard to raise a leader at home. These kids always have their own ways of doing things and like to tell other people (including their parents) what to do😓.They are better equipped to succeed, be creative. When we channelize them in a right direction, they will be more creative and succeed as leaders to uplift our society. Unchannalized strong will might end by even harmful to the society.
I have some tips to channelize their spirit not to break their spirit
1.Create strong inner moral principle not only by words but by your actions.
2.Find things (extra or co curriculum) that they can do that will challenge their strong wills.
3.Provide Healthy discipline which occurs when a parent helps a child yield to his authority and this can be done while preserving the child’s strong sense of self respect.
4.Parents should be strong willed in disciplining them in a healthy way.
5.Give Positive choices to feel their Independence's.
6.Give some space to plan their routine works to do .
7.Create better emotional bonding.
In my perception,
Having Strong-willed mind is the better personality to get success.
