Accept ;then Act

Accept; then  

                       Act!!

I was worried when my car driver took a new  route instead of my known one due to road work  to reach my home town .I missed my fun  moment of long drive because of the new direction.We want to reach our destiny as we planned.We are getting disappointment when unexpected situation arises  to reach destination.

Some times acceptance is the best choice rather than asking why it is.We should not confuse acceptance with defeat or denial.“Acceptance of one’s life has nothing to do with resignation; it does not mean running away from the struggle. On the contrary, it means accepting it as it comes, with all the handicaps of heredity, of suffering, of psychological complexes and injustices.”-Paul Tournier.We should put effort to change the things if it is changeable;but accept those are unchangeable in your life.Acceptance is the invitation of what else are not in your control.

We can not control other's emotions like faithful,love,gratitude.But you can  have the control of your emotions that means  you can control the response of what else happened by others.

Accept the life as it is and take lesson for your future to make and construct relationship.

People go in to depression and suicide attempt those who are have less acceptance skill.

It is easy to advice to have acceptance.But many opportunities will cross us to embrace acceptance..Even I took long period  to learn this lesson.I have learned ,Not only courage moments but discourage moments also part of my destiny.I am enjoying the frozen let it go song with my kids.

Happiness is directly proportional to acceptance;but indirectly proportional to the expectation.

I want to give you Some tips to practice acceptance which I learned from my life.

1.Acknowledge yourself -you are unique;accept who you are.

2.Understand the reality -Understanding and working with reality is purposeful. Acknowledging your reality will help you choose your dreams wisely and then help you achieve them.

3.Recognize your role.-Accept your part of work wherever it is.Ask yourself questions related to your current situation to help work toward solutions.To Ask yourself questions related to your current situation to help work toward solutions.

4.Understand your mistakes -Analyze your mistake as a learning stone.

5.Stand in your way -Don't much think about others view.

In my perception,

Maturity is not by age but by their acceptance skill they posses.