Feel Your Feeling of Happy!
"One filled with joy preaches without preaching". -Mother Teresa
Happiness is accepting what it is.When we put our goal in terms of wealth,fame and status,we might loose our real happiness .Happiness is a feeling,you could not feel it when you run behind those things. I would like to share 4 kinds of rules to feel your happy feelings.
1.Seek financial security not wealth
When our intention is to become a wealthy person,then we may loose our happiness. We need money in our life to take care of our well being and family well being.We can create secured life using money .In the same time we should not become a greedy of money .When we run behind wealth we may lose our life happiness.We can not measure happiness in terms of money or what you are possessing.
2.Seek respect not fame
When we will become a stepping stone to other people ,then they will give respect towards us in their heart.We should be useful or helpful to others that makes our life meaningful.In my view You are worthily for 10 people is better than you are famous among 1000.
3.Seek responsible role not status
When you are trying hard to show your high status,you may loose your life satisfaction. But when you take responsible roles in the society which give true joy in your heart. Responsiveness is much different than the status.
Seek friends of virtue not shallow relationship
Friends of virtue are really care about you and they will strengthen you when you will become low. In my view 10 friends of virtue is bigger than 1000s of knowing people.
In my perception,
Happiness is a by-product of an your work to make someone else happy.