Pampering is good
They are making ready us to face future. Yes, they are practicing us to get ready for the future when we are young. Among the many practices, one of the practice is separation for starting preschool .According to kids behaviour on those separation period, psychologist are classified 4 kind of attachment.
Secure attachment
Some kids will cry for some time because of missing their parent but after some time, they will get distract themself after seeing their peers. This cry will go off after some more days, then they will say bye happily. Wow! .What a Good experience .
Avoidant attachment.
Some kids don't cry and even they will be happy to get separate from parents. Those kind of attachment is avoidant attachment. They don't mind about separation time in starting period of their school.
Resistant attachment
Some kids will cry more and more and even after when their parents came back to pick them. It will be difficult to comfort those kids. Psychologist is saying that is inconsistent care giving or unlimited pampering.
Disorganized attachment
Some kids will run away once the parent come to pick .This attachment is disorganized attachment.
yes, Pampering is the better way to show your love to boost their self confident. .But how much you are pampering? Is Less pampering? or Balanced pampering ? or too much pampering?
In my perception,
Pampering is good to give confident but too much pampering is not.
All the very best to raise confident kids.
Time to Think : What is your level of pampering?
Reference
The book of Psychology ;Open stax college; Rice University
