People around you are important!
Last week My neighbor asked me that Why you are calling your younger daughter as good girl and sharing girl like that .I replied my neighbor that I want her to be a good girl, so that I am calling her good girl .yes;Your word might be the seed for one's success or failure. As a social animal of human, we are interdependent on those who around us. Other people's thoughts ,words, expectation might influence one's behaviour and attitude. I would like to share with you three psychology experiments to prove that people around you are influencing you which I learned from the video of Foundation of social psychology by Dr.Andy luttrel ,professor of social psychology in Ball state University, U.S.A .Experiment 1
Influenced by other's thoughts
For a research purpose ,a group of randomly chosen kids were named as a intelligent kids .At the starting of academic year ,the researcher gave the name list of randomly chosen kids as a intelligent kids to the class teacher .They found that the randomly chosen kids scored high marks compare to the other kids in all the subject at the end of year exam. Teacher belief is selected kids are really intelligence kids (she don't know they are randomly chosen). so she treated or handled them in a manner made the normal kids become a really intelligent kids. What teacher's thought (they are intelligent) influenced kids to become really intelligent kids.
Experiment 2
Influenced by other's words
Two groups of people 's brain are scanned by a scanned machine to find how much happiness they are feeling. For a research purpose Scanner gave them to drink a small quantity of wine as well as scanner told to them what kind of wine of wine they are drinking.
Experiment 1:Scanner gave costly wine but he told it is a cheap wine.
Experiment 2:Scanner gave cheap cost wine but he told it is a costlier wine.
They detected higher happiness signal at experiment 2 than experiment by scanning machine. That means what scanner said is influenced them to get high signal rather what they drank really.
Experiment 3Influenced by other's thoughts
Person A's expectation is B's behavior is friendly. So person A started to approach person B with friendly manner. So that Person B responded in a friendly way. Thus person A 's expectation influenced person B's behavior.
People around you are influencing directly or indirectly to shape you or mess up you. Family ,friends, society are influencing you to have a good attitude. I am also strongly agree with the words of famous American musician that I would like to be remembered as a man who had a wonderful time living life, a man who had good friends, fine family - and I don't think I could ask for anything more than that, actually.
In my perception,
No matter what material(money) you have around you, but the people around you are matter in your life!
Be thankful to your family, teacher, friends!
All the very best to make better influence on others life!
